I think you're right, he will get a fright.. The letter has the divorce word in it, even though its just a separation agreement at this point..
Will something along lines of solicitors have started working on it, he'll probably get a letter this week, and that it's simply to formalise current situation (been separated for 6 months now)..
Gut feels it is right thing to do, just hope I've not opened a can of worms that I could have avoided..
Ill leave it up to him to tell his friends, he's very private/secretive, don't want to meddle and have it blow up in my face..
Ho hum.. Not easy all this stuff :"(
Thanks for your reply hollyanne
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