curious mrosko....if he, instead of saying he wanted to get sober, had said instead he wanted to take flying lessons and get his pilot's license, would you have searched the internet and then joined a forum on flight or aerodynamics? ordered a book on it? talk with your therapist about it? all for someone you've been dating for <90 days???
it's not about caring...we get that....it's about the lengths you are willing to go to for someone you don't know very well, and who recently decided to start the quest to sobriety.