NikNox being lighthearted....and I appreciate your honest posts...you will find the answers if not already...in several relationships with acquaintences who are using I just had to sever all ties and communications and have no contact close those chapters of my life...in reverse during my drinking/using I was told never to call again...today after a good while in sobriety my sister won't let me have her phone number and address...I'm a double winner with both AA/Alanon...I caused a lot of hurt and people hurt me...and one of the best things has been distance, seperation, and emotional and physical boundaries...