Hey Jax ,
I'm sorry to hear about your daughter thats a real tough thing to deal with . You sound like a real careing mum
Just incase you haven't looked around much here are some links to the friends and family sections where there are people going through something similar to you :-
Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Bestwishes to you and i'll say a prayer for your daughter , M