Originally Posted by
zany90 
ok, mesosober, point taken.. i know your right, i do... dunno why this is on my mind so much today it hasnt been an issue really up until now.. the concern is the fear of women in general. thats all.. i dunno i feel like ive been rambling on and its annoying so i appreciate the advice
I'm actually just trying to make you laugh a little and get you to lighten up! I think the lightening up is key to your success.
And please do stop feeding yourself all the negative self-talk. That'll only make you feel worse. THINK POSITIVE, or at least stop beating yourself up so much.
Maybe you can find some books or other resources to find out more about social anxiety or anxiety related to the opposite sex. If nothing else maybe it will help you see that you're not the only one who feels the way you do.
Good luck -- I'll be rootin' for you!