Originally Posted by
zany90 
like i say this isnt a cry for help in terms of needing to relate to alcoholics and all that fluff, some people need that, i dont... i just need a relationship with females, even a f***king friendship.. i just feel like a total failure and totally unattractive. im on here posting this because if i dont challenge this feeling it usually ends up being an unwanted outcome
If you are truly here just to find a female relationship as you say, you are in the wrong place.
If you are here for help with quitting drinking or recovery support, you have hit the literal gold mine. Many of us here have quit and remained sober with or without AA. You may get suggestions from some that it has worked for, but just as many will suggest AVRT, rational recovery, SR, counseling, or a combination of any of the above.
But the real question is whether or not you have the desire to quit. Best if luck in making that decision