The meetings might be a bit difficult at the moment, as I would have to explain why I would be going. In essence, I would be stating the fact that he is an alcoholic. It won't be pretty and I am not ready for that conversation (argument) yet. I have been steadily going through the information posted in the stickis as well as the book. A friend from work also contacted me today that has faced some of these same issues and invited me to lunch. I plan to meet with her next week. Hmm. Does anyone believe in synchronicity?