Dandylion,
Thank you for the hint. I discovered long ago that I needed to handle his health issues on his own. If I had any hand in it, then it never turned out well. Same thing with anyone we might need to hire to do maintenance or odd jobs. Do you have any ideas how embarrassing it is when your husband rants to, or fires the husband of one of yor friends?
BTW, I was told that alcohol had NOTHING to do with his fall last night. Sigh