Yogagurl...I think its really awesome u stand ur ground but can Iask why u agree to live w him when u know he's not trying to get clean?? Did u know he used when u dated?? I'm just askin cuz I never knew till his arrest and only continuing or the reason he wants to change now. Out of my own adbfs mouth....when they're busy chasing their next high...its possessing them if u will and ur right...anything or anyone else is on the sidelines!! They act without rationalization....if Ido this, what will happen? They never get to that second part ya know?!