I feel NOBODY especially a bf or husband has the right to call u anything but special...my adbf even while using may have said one or two things bad and Iput my foot down n left that day n guess what...never happened.again. he says I'm the one adult he's ever listened to..I believe if we allow it to happen than it will continue kinda like dr. Phil says we teach (or allow) people how to treat us and I NEVER took any bad words ever!!