You have to remember that when it comes to court, it’s not what you know it’s what you can prove!!
This attorney is suggesting something in writing that clearly shows your concern and conclusion if she does not seek professional help.
We can all talk about moving forward, doing what’s best for ourselves and the children. We can get all our ducks in a row, have an attorney, a plan…………but it’s always the “saying it out loud part” that seems to bring us the most ambivalence.
With every action there is a re-action and how she is going to re-act is how she is going to re-act…….you can’t do anything about that.
And so, if she cleans up for a short period of time, who’s to say to don’t just continue on with the divorce at that point.