My entire marriage to my exah was a lie... He lied about everything, things he didn't even have to lie about... Part of it could have been his personality and part of it could be he is a drug addict... But being that I probably saw him sober a handful of times I can't really differentiate between the two reason... But what I do know is that it's really hard to have a successful relationship with someone who is lying not only to you but to themselves