Cynical & LMN speak wisdom,
This is varsity level stuff.Big time. Navigate carefully.
This devil does not let go easily.Far from it.
People offering ESH walk a fine line,too. Too many horror
stories can be counterproductive.The rub,though,is when
those stories are spot on.
Get a BP cuff & don't hesitate to call in the cavalry (911)
if things get rough.Good intentions are no substitute for raw
tested competence.There is a human life on the line.It doesn't
get any more 'real' than that.