Please know that no one is trying to dash your hopes or scare you. We are just sharing our experiences. Most rehabs and detoxes are big money and there is a reason why. Even then, more often then not, most relapse anyway. Don't let anyone kid you otherwise. They have to really want, need and work at it.
My ego thought I was qualified to help, plan, and solve. I had no experience in the least. What was I thinking? Kind of like trying to manage someone's diabetes or cancer treatment. I am just not qualified.