Originally Posted by
mstrust 
it is...hard to let go of the responsibility, right??? not that yes, i am responsible for him?
it is very hard to let it go( responsibility)
you are in no way,shape,or form responsible
for HIS decisions.
One thing that can't go unnoticed around here is how
EASY and OBVIOUS the egress option is,From the
outside looking in.The phrase "easier said than done"
comes to mind.