This one has always been difficult for me. I have to remember to be direct about how I feel and not how others should feel.
Being direct does not mean giving unsolicited advice! It simply mean be honest with myself.
The lines can easily become blurry when to talking to people i care about and not liking or questioning their decisions. I would want certain people to question my motives and decisions but I have to remember that is how I feel and not everyone feels like I do.
Very confusing at times!!