Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
working ON step 4 is one thing....getting to step NINE, the amends step, is another story. did he SAY he wanted to talk to you and make amends, or just that he wanted to talk? and more importantly, what do you hope/expect to HEAR?
just me, my personal opinion? I think it's too soon. he's been in a rehab/protected environment for four short months...
You are likely right. I have no idea what he intends to say and for me...I have no expectation specifically. He also wanted me to come to his graduation in Aug, however I declined that...will be out of town. I've forgiven him...but absolutely don't want him in my life in any capacity. I hope this can just be a closure of sorts. If he has some other agenda...well, it will likely be disappointing for him.