Originally Posted by
fedup3 
Be very careful my x was abusive until I started to stand up for myself and then he backed off. When you're in a situation like that for a long time with an abusive person you don't realize what danger you're really in, scarey! Even after the divorce I was fearful of him showing up angry, but he never did seeing I told him if he ever came over I would call the police. An abuser person is recovered when they truly say they are sorry and they totally leave you alone and don't stalk you! Out of your LIFE!
I can honestly say that I still don't realize how dangerous he can be. He seems so genuine right now but I know to fall for it. I don't know if he will ever leave me alone completely. He just texted me that he misses me so much and wants us to be able to love again, that me being gone is soooo hard for him. I didn't answer.