Just wanted to update since my last post. Since the move, kids and I are adjusting well. Final PFA is with contact started by myself, I have full custody of kids. I am letting him see them ONLY BECAUSE; he is a total diff person. Yes I know that I can not buy into this and I am not. He is trying to be caring, family material. He hasn't really drank or went anywhere. He thinks we are still going to work things out. I have just told him that I need time to work on me. I said I will allow him to have kids but one mess up and that will be it. Am I being to nice??? I know he has a LONG way to go before I even can start to believe in him again, if I decide that is what I want to do. What do you think? Also I got my landlord to come down $50 on the rent. Whoo hoo