Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
Star brings up a good point, too. You can "carry the message" here at SR as well as in meetings.
And in real life.
We were swapping "crazy wife" stories at work.
One of the guys is living with one off the rails. She goes drunk out every weekend and maybe shows back up before Monday morning to help get the kids to school.
Wound up giving him an Alanon new-comer pack, and setting him up with the company Employee Assistance Program.
Lotta folks need a lotta help out there.
Get yourself clean first (Steps 1 to 11) and then help others (Step 12).