Originally Posted by
AnonK 
I didn't have the money for AAA, and it wasn't a serious enough wreck to call 911. Plus, these services were created and are maintained by humans; which means they are not perfect and there's no guarantee that they WILL always be there to help.
I allocate my need based issues differently than others, because my needs are different than others. Even with self-sufficiency, you still need other people. This includes the need for love and validation (it does for me, at the very least). Sure, I provide some of it -- but a lot of it comes from elsewhere. And for me, that's okay.
My love comes from elsewhere too... like my cat... she loves me always.
imho I think you should really reconsider why you called him.
I like to be a damsel in distress myself. Many times I have manipulated D to rescue me. If I wasnt getting attention from him I would slightly exaggerate a negative experience to kick his rescue reflex into gear. sometimes it worked, others it didn't.
If it wasnt a serious enough emergency to call 911 then why would it be serious enough to call someone who has said they don't want talk to you?
I know it hurts.
I have been where you are right now.
sometimes I still find myself there in my head.
hugs.