lily...instead of trying to figure the seating arrangements at church....how about you write down what YOU value in life, what YOU hold dear...YOUR values, morals and ethics. if life is a road trip, what do you take with you? if you have 5 minutes to grab all you hold dear from your home before disaster strikes, what do you take?
then....look at this person who has created so much confusion, angst and grief in your life and truthfully assess if he FITS into your Life Operating System.......or not.
those who we allow into our lives should enhance it in some way. when I volunteer with United Way to help the needy and less fortunate, I GAIN from that by giving FREELY of myself and being able to walk away having grown and been humbled. I don't bring them home with me and try to CHANGE them...I simply give of my time talents and treasures and hope I made a small difference.
who's driving your bus honey?