I have been dating my CABF for 5 years. I learned of his addiction after a year of being with him. Since then every year I have attempted to help him beat his addiction to crack. I have helped him go to rehabs (3 currently), I have controlled his financial situation, I protected him from consequences. I know that i am an enabler but now I am tired. I have done all I could do. The only things is I still love him and and saddened that he will die in the street, go to jail, or never get himself together. He is a great pretender and will soon have a new woman to pick up where I left off. I lost a lot of time trying to help this addict and now I need to help myself and my 5 children from outside the relationship. How can I get over the pain of letting go of someone you loved and helped for so long.
ClassyDiva
