I am stressing about this weekend as i will be having a get together with my footy mates on Saturday night for the first time since i have become sober. I did go to a 21st a couple of weeks ago but this is a little different. My mates are all big drinkers and we normally get pretty messy at these get together s! I cant put it off or avoid it any longer so i just have to face and deal with it. The response from my wife and daughter was "just have a beer" when i asked for some advice on how to avoid drinking on the night. hmmmmm I don't think so after getting this far. Wish me luck people's and have a great weekend