Sometimes when you are smack dab in the middle of it all it’s so hard to see the trees through the forest. What’s true, what’s not true. What do you really believe compared to what you wish to believe. What is real and what is not real.
So, from way over here looking in I see a young girl of 25 falls hard for a guy who happens to be a drug user. They date and his addiction progress’s to the point where his own family kicks him out of the house. GF and family take him in spends a lot of money on a vehicle for him to use to get to work……….he then disrespects GF and family by bringing drugs and using drugs in their home…….he then lies making it sound all good that he wants to re-pay them earn trust back but doesn’t do a dam thing to really re-pay them….other things come up that are way more important then you and your parents.
He has his hooks into you, knows exactly what to say to get you off his back and on his side…of course he doesn’t want you to get healthy by going to al-anon, he doesn’t want to lose his enable right now.
You say you are ready to walk away………..what’s stopping you?