Maybe if you don't love your partner it might be best for you all if you separate. I know when I stayed living with someone I no longer loved I was more likely to drink. Maybe if you're on your own you can concentrate your resources on your recovery and then be better for your little girl.You won't lose your little girl by moving out-you can be a better dad all round when sober and come to arrangements re access etc. You can do this. I tried so many times before I got sober,you CAN do it