Originally Posted by
freshstart57 
So quit drinking already and get on with it. Time's a wasting already. Onward!
The OP says s/he's been sober for 10 months...
Harden -- It sounds like your therapist is recommending you figure out "why" meaning what problems you're trying to solve with drinking? Then yes, I think that's very necessary. It sounds like you and your sponsor may have different philosophies. Maybe it would be better to go with someone who's more open to the approaches you want to take?