Originally Posted by
instant 
I am sorry to hear of your health problem
You are aware of the "you" part of the issue and the "them" part. Your explanation for their behaviour is implied lack of care and concern- rather than them being busy or some other explanation.
I have an issue with relying on others- i am basically a bit paranoid, so i know we can get in the way of ourselves.
Just my 2c worth.
Good observation, Instant. The "them" part is the dark side of the moon, i.e. largely unknowable and ripe for misinterpretation, particularly for someone, like me, with a tendency towards depression and inclined to take things personally, in other words a thin skin. Not really paranoid, but over sensitive, hard to take criticism. These, and more, are all personality traits. AA has helped me to cope with them but they're still there- you better believe it! One thing is certain. I wouldn't have a chance of coping if I picked up a drink.
What sobriety does is give me a fighting chance and increasing the odds of survival.
W.