My friend's mother does not work the program. Well, she does not drink so I can't say she doesn't work it in that aspect. She and her daughter are non recovering addicts. And their behavior reflects that. Hard to get through to people in that state. I kind of feel they are trying to sabotage me. That could be my crazy thing too. It could very well have been an honest mistake. I don't know. I will bring it up to the mom in a nice way and hope she will just leave me alone.