Completely relate...
MissMushroom,
I can completely relate to the upset that having a friend cross with you can cause. My roommate, who moved out of my apartment in February due to alcohol issues after I furnished the place and did all the leg work because she was in CA, while I was on the East Coast, and lost her keys, said it was my responsibility to sublet her share of the apartment today (I also met her in inpatient treatment & thought she was sober-- but she showed up to the apartment drunk...). When I told her that it was, in fact, not my responsibility, she flipped out. These are the kind of situations that would drive us to drink, but we can't. I'm glad that you will be seeing a counselor.
Just thought I would reach out to you!
Wishing you luck!
Sutton123