Originally Posted by
myfreedom 
He texts me every day at work. Asking how my day is, that he misses me and wishes he could hold me. It kinda makes me nauseous. He is being sooooo sensitive and questions everything if he feels any doubt in his mind. If I get out of bed during the night, its like his radar goes off and he is awake, coming to see what I am doing. Right now he is texting, asking if he can hold me tonite. I just want him to leave me alone.
You know what all of this sounds like. Control. He is being told in therapy that his use of anger and violence is wrong, so he is finding another way to control you. By texting all day, by being overly sensitive and focusing on you so much, being over bearing, its another form of control, so no, nothing has changed honey...
