It's an inner conflict and a test of wills.
I found looking at it that way made me tense...and being tense all the time weakened me...and when I got weak I got vulnerable.
There is no conflict. You know whats best - there is no compromise.
The battles over.
That voice is like a lone heckler at a stand up show. Ignore it.
There is no test of wills either.
It has no will - you have all the will
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