We have the power it comes from within us. We can give it any name we want. I choose to call it me. I can look in the mirror and ask myself why did I drink! I don't like that that I drank too much. While looking at myself I can ask how am I going to stop doing this? I'm no saint never will be! But by looking at myself and holding me accountable my problems and desires to get drunk are disappearing. I think looking into what makes you drink being unhappy, feeling stuck, and not effectively communicating my personal issues and solving your personal problems will be the most helpful.