Originally Posted by
deeker 
DG, I was told as a newcomer not to hang with newcomers. They will pull you down before you ever pull them up and it is already affecting your peace of mind.
Your recovery should be number #1. I learned that lesson the hard way.
Love her and pray for her from afar.
Deeker has a lot of experience, she has given you some great advice.
I also don't have much to add yet feel compelled to reply. I am worried about you, because I do not think you should be spending time with someone who is unsure of whether or not she wants to recover.