.... Why after being sober for 3 years would he do something so horrible??
please help me.. I love this man.. but right now I really hate what he has done, and want to knock the living.. you know what out of him.....
Hugs
Brat
Brat:
Well, simple answer would be that he is probably alcoholic. We alcoholics can really adversely affect those around us while thinking we are only hurting ourselves. Or, we burn with a guilt for what we have done that we "THINK" only a drink or two will solve.
Hopefully some Friends and Family of Alcoholics will post shortly here and lead you into their forum so you can get some help from their perspective. If you really love him and he truly wants to stay sober this go round, I would suggest he stay active in the court ordered programs his drinking has forced him into. There was and is HOPE, even for one once as hopeless as I. Other than that, offer him a chance to come here and visit a few of us who have been pretty well were he sits right now.
((((((((((Brat, your Hubby, and Family)))))))))))
Kiss Heart of Spirit In Love & Service,
3Legs