Thank you for your input. I have and always was upfront through out this relatonship. I have told him any and all concerns thruout previous relationships still I can not see why anyone would think they would have the right to do thids to their partner of two years already.....
I do find it interesting how each gender does minimize the behavior in their own way. Facinating. I especially like the proposing one.......if indeed that was his angle? why would he decide two years later? really? cmon? ridiculous? It is another for of control.... He has recently started counseling for hitting me.... and he no longer is doing that and these obsurd behaviors are now occurring.