I found out in a way I know was wrong, I was at my bf's desk on the computer and his VISA bill was laying there and we live together so it isn't like a complete thing where I went "looking. or snooping" but I shouldn't of looked at it but it was there. I looked at the charges on the bill.
Now he often lets me use his card if I need money here and there so I guess I may be minimizing but I know it was wrong but I did look at the bill.....
The reason I am upset at myself is because in the two years I have NEVER ever looked thru his wallet, bills or any personal things!!!
On the bill was a charge that was weird......I googled it.... I found out that he infact paid for a service to do a criminal background check and credit report on me.
I was dumbfounded.
I am still in shock and a feel very betrayed. About a year ago he audiotaped me for 6mos without my knowing. I have know idea if I will ever be able to trust again.
I believe I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
