thanks for all the advice, everyone! yeah, i'm not going to let her distract me from my sobriety. i went to a brunch and meeting this morning (even though i only had about 3.5 hours of sleep!). i've texted her and asked her to contact me before 2. that way, i'm not on the hook going to a meeting i'd rather not go to (going to another meeting this evening as well). if she's sober, i'm happy to go to the 3PM meeting.
well, she just texted me that she's sober and we're still on. i hope this meeting helps her. i want my friend back. i'll stay focused on me though and if she wants to tag along or invites me to a meeting then that's fine. we'll see how this goes. thanks again!