A good friend I made in AA went back out. It got to the point where I couldn't talk to her anymore because she was blaming the program for letting her down. All just excuses. Anyway I told her I loved her & would be here for her when she is ready to get sober. I hope she returns but I couldn't jeopardize my own sobriety anymore. No point in trying to get a point across to someone when they're drunk. I wish your friend the best.