Lara,
I second what LMN says.No matter WHAT unfolds---your SR friends will be there for
you.
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toss these lines of 'love' to me... I swallow them. I absorb them.
What the hell is wrong with me?? Am I THIS weak????
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The addict I cared about was not my gal,my wife,or even (really) my friend.
I tell you who I AM in AWE of.......people like YOU fighting this in their PRIMARY
relationships.I would LOVE to spout off a line of BS inferring my superiority and the
fact that I would NEVER allow myself to be treated that way.
But that just isn't true.The truth is I don't KNOW what I'd do if the
addict was in my tight inner circle.People on 'websites' SURE can TALK a tough game.
But there aren't any controls,are there? I'll tell you what is authentic----people who
reach out and say "I slipped up".You say you thought twice before posting 'cuz you
KNEW you were gonna 'get it'.
That alone tells me you are a lady (and a MOM)....of courage.