It's pretty hard not to take it personally. My gf doesn't seem to want to sober up, and I understand she's chemically dependent right now, BUT being around her when she's been drinking is so uncomfortable. Just everything. So I get a text that she got us dinner, so there's an expectation that I'll be there... Today I really can't, or I won't whatever. It was terrible trying to get myself off the merry go round, and i don't want to get sucked in with the big alcohol problem I had.
So I hope this isn't OT, it's just about tough choices, I don't want to walk away from someone I like and who maybe even needs some help... but I'm so drained. I want her to own it and fix it.