It will take time Patty. For me at least though I've found the courage and resolve to go out to restaurants, family gatherings, etc.. where alcohol is readily available and pass on it. I even have a good time! Granted, I'm not specifically going to bars or parties where the sole purpose of being there is drinking - and i don't really see a need to ever go to those places much again anyway. Glad you are getting some more help - and I am willing to bet it will get better for you with time.