Originally Posted by
neferkamichael 
Anberlin, please never give him any money, don't let him use your car, and please hide all your jewelry and valuable possessions. I hope ya don't have to, but expect the worst. No sense in you goin down on a sinking ship. Rootin for the both of ya.
I agree, his words are those of active addict who is desperate and will do (or sell) anything to get his drugs.
It's nothing to do with you, he just wants his drugs and you too. For you, that's the worst of all worlds.
Hide your valuables including your bank card and decide if this is how you want to live. You don't have to stay with an active addict, it's a terrible place to be.
Good luck.
Hugs