Thanks, stella. I did go to a meeting today, and I'm glad I did. I needed to hear today's message - autonomy. I bawled at my first Al Anon meeting, and I bawled again today at my second meeting. But it was good to share and to hear others' stories as well about what autonomy means to them. For me, it means finding my own way, being in charge of my own life, and letting others be in charge of theirs. VERY timely topic for me right now!
I talked to AH a few minutes ago, and his plans have changed again for today - glad I didn't sit around waiting for him! He's getting settled in and is hitting a second meeting early this evening, and he will be stopping by later to pick up some stuff and to visit for a bit. I told him to bring dinner, lol! Crying my eyes out at that meeting took a lot out of me and I'm tired, so for now, I'm going to rest a bit. The cleaning and other chores can wait until later or tomorrow.