Veronica,
Hi hun, I can really relate to the negativity and having everything I say turned against me and the smallest dumbest things blow up into a fight. Since I've been here just a couple days, I have come to realize it's not me it is HIM and I feel so much better about that.
The thoughts of leaving him are always there, but I know when the time is right I will know what I need to do, with a lot of prayers. I will be praying for you too!!