Thank you guys so much. I'm sleeping on the couch tonight cause I'm pretty upset with him. He has never grabbed me like that. One time he threw something at me but intentionally missed. But when he wakes up, will be extremely apologetic. I'm sure he will, he always is. Ur right, I need to show him that he cannot do this anymore. Thanks for the recommendations, I will def use them! I can't take it anymore. If he ever laid a hand on my kids... I just don't know. Thank you, I'm happy to know there are people to turn to.