Originally Posted by
Brittany81 
I think my parents would help but I second guess taking the kids from him cause its 1200 miles away and honestly I hate to admit defeat. Like I said, my family hates him and this would give them gas for the fire. I love him so much and he is such a great father. But lately it is getting out of control.
I understand pride. If it is out of control then there are many solutions to your problem. There are many resources available to you. I would not let pride get in the way.
Maybe this is a one time occasion. Talk with him and see if things will change. Not 2 day change. Serious change. If it doesn't re-evaluate your situation.