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Old 04-25-2013, 04:11 AM
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LexieCat
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Originally Posted by BuckTheHero View Post
I'm in the same boat. Just dropped the wife off at a rehab tonight. I'm really scared by the prospect of raising my two children alone. I don't know what I'm going to do, but it's clear to me that my marriage is over. My wife clearly loves alcohol more than her husband and children. I'm not even angry anymore. I'm just sad. Really sad - and alone.
Buck, you don't have to navigate this alone. I hope you will find yourself an Al-Anon meeting. You have to get your head clear and your feet under you.

Yes, being a single parent is very, very hard work. Maybe your wife will grab onto recovery and she will regain the ability to parent. Some people do. Even if she does not, though, you can do this. Living with an alcoholic will suck the life and energy out of anyone. Al-Anon can help you get healthy again, for yourself and your kiddos.
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