oh i love that! sounds soooo freeing and so uncomplicated.
i sit and wonder if my husband is a jerk to me because of the drugs and alcohol, or is that just HIM ?
so thanks, i guess it doesnt matter why he is the way he is , what matters is if he is treating me in a way i feel is acceptable, and if not what are the consequences.
thanks alot for your post it really gave me a new insight, and good luck to you !!