Thank you all. I apologize for posting the emails, I didn't realize I was violating a rule. I guess I just wanted feedback for what she was saying, and exactly how it was being said. I feel a lot better tonite. More calm. I have been packing for our trip, making arrangements for my son and mom while I'm gone. Her anger is palpable in her emails. I hope it fizzles out. I haven't responded to her emails, and my phone is blocked. Writing here helps me. I went back and read all my previous threads, I had forgotten how last Fall she had threatened me with code enforcement and I felt trapped by it. She had been trying to say she was with me all summer, but there in black and white was my writing that she wasn't. I was beginning to doubt MY memory.